If you are planning on doing the same old dinner and a movie shtick stop right now! Everybody has done that and if you are in a new relationship you want something that will set you apart from all of your partners past relationships. If you are in a marriage, changing your traditional Valentine’s day up is an excellent way to spice up your marriage. You can also avoid long waits for a table and crowded restaurants. If you are unsure of your creativity then I have some suggestions for a great night.
5 Sexy Ideas for Valentine’s Day
1. Change of Scenery:
As I said before going out for dinner on Valentine’s day is old hat. Instead why don’t you stay in where clothes and shoes are optional. If you are luckier than I and live in a warm climate, try having a moonlight picnic in your local park, backyard, or terrace. If you live in a cold area like me have an indoor picnic with soft music and candlelight, or in front of a glowing fire place. This provides an intimate setting where you two can truly talk instead of barely being to hear each other in a restaurant, bar, or lounge.
Since you will be eating in, try making your partner’s favorite food for dinner. If you don’t have very good culinary skills or are just too tired to make up pot roast after work, call his/her favorite restaurant and order his/her favorite dish. Many restaurants offer a carry out option. This also may be cheaper since you will not be charged tax or be expected to tip. Doing this will show that you care about your partner and notice the little details about them making them feel as if you truly care.
Put the roses and chocolate down and back away slowly. This has been done for forever by everyone in the modern history of Valentine’s Day. Show your lover that they are special to you by giving them something creative. If you are buying the same gift for your partner that you are for your parent, then it is the wrong gift. Unless you have some parental issues. Surprise your partner by taking them to their favorite store and allowing them to pick out a gift for themselves. You could also take them to an adult store and allow them to pick out something that they can use on you later. If you are a woman I would suggest taking your man to a lingerie store and allow him to pick out some outfits and try them on for him ( in this instance he may be so excited, that you won’t have to pay).
If you are short on cash then make something for your partner. You could create a slideshow of pictures of you together set to your song. You could compile poems that remind you of your partner and even contribute some of your own. Another idea would be to make a video expressing how much that person means to you(if you must travel frequently or have a long distance relationship this would be an especially good idea). Write a list of ten things that you love about your partner. The possibilities are boundless and this will mean more to them than chocolates and flowers. They will last way longer too.
If the more sentimental, poetic side isn’t your style not to worry. You could also create a basket for your partner with things particular to their interests. Is your lover a movie buff? You could create a basket with new movies, popcorn, theater candy, and a gift card to your local cinema. Are they into a certain sport? Create a basket with items for that sport, their favorite team or player, and maybe tickets to an event for the two of you. You can look up hundreds of basket ideas on Google for all types of interests and hobbies.
Does your partner enjoy dancing? Create your own exclusive night club for the night at home or see if there is a Valentine’s Day Dance in your area. Is your partner into movies? Pick out some flicks that you both will like and cuddle up on the couch for the night. Play a game together(maybe even a sexy one). Cook or bake together if that is what your partner enjoys. If your partner likes to read maybe read out loud to them (this is intensely hot with erotica and romance novels and can help set the mood).
So you are ready for your night of romance to meet its peak but you want things to be more fun than usual. What can you do?
- Share your fantasies with each other
- Act fantasies out
- Read some erotica while touching each other
- Bring in some toys
- Play a naughty game
- Do some light bondage (only if you are both comfortable with this)
- Extend your foreplay
- Watch an adult video together
- Strip tease for each other
Those are some of my suggestions on how to spice up things in the bedroom for Valentine’s Day. I’m sure you can think up some more.
I hope you all have a very fun Valentine’s Day and I also hope that some of that fun and bedroom spice lasts into the weekend, for a very sexy Valentine’s Day neither one of you will be forgetting soon.
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